S3x Should be painless: S3x is supposed to be painless and enjoyable, if you do not make sure she is wet, it is unlikely to be so. When a woman is having painful S3x because she is being penetrated when she is not ready, it will make her want S3x less. A decline in sexual intimacy in a relationship is one of the most common reasons for breakup and unfaithfulness. S3x, for women is not just physical, but also a mental and emotional experience. If she has good S3x with you, she is very likely to connect with you on an emotional level as well. If you discard her pleasure and interest, it will negatively impact her feelings towards you in other areas of your relationship too. S3x is not selfish, so you shouldn’t be.
She will or gassm: Being wet is one important S3x on the way to or gasm. There is no way a woman who is not aroused will reach climax. It will be such an uncomfortable experience that all she is thinking about is for you to be done with it so the ordeal will be over. She is not relaxed enough to let go and her body is not in the right place to ignite an or gasm.