1. Use It On The Whole Cl!toris: Make sure your mouth is showing some love to more than just the tip of the cl!t, c’ex therapist Dr. Kat Van Kirk recommends. “The cl!toris actually extends in a wishbone shape under the vagina lips,” so be sure to extend your efforts accordingly.
2. Warm Up The Cl!t: Now that you know not to neglect the whole cl!t, you need to know how to warm it up, so to speak. “For most women, the cl!toris is really sensitive,” c’ex therapist Vanessa Marin explains, “and requires extra care when you’re just starting [o’ral].” Marin says to try keeping your tongue wide and flat, making long, slow licks from the bottom to the top, lingering on the cl!toris for an extra second.